’He’ watches her as ’She’ dances to ’His’ tunes!

Continued from last post … 

Spiritual Love – So how do we reach a state of consciousness to experience spiritual love in physical form? This is the question that has inspired this blog. The answer is in meditation. All forms of meditation support consciousness evolution for the birth & growth of spiritual love. However, Tantra meditation is an experience specifically focused on the union consciousness evolution of two beings in love. Tantra is where love meets meditation for the transcendence of duality. It is Sacred sexuality to explore the height of spiritual love. I can’t say much specifically on Tantra meditation at this point, as it is only a seed that existence has placed in me, but what I can speak with conviction on is meditation in its entirety. In meditation alone, man and woman are equal because in meditation they are both man and woman, and neither man nor woman. They are awake to their conscious, unconscious and subconscious energies. To the man & the woman inside each of them. Deep understanding is born, of the self and of the other through the self. In meditation it is not a man’s world, it is not even a world; it is then a spiritual experience in physical form. 

The meditator has accepted a path of vertical growth over horizontal growth. The meditator’s approach to life is inward as opposed to outward; upward as opposed to outward. The meditator is both He & She, understands both man & woman, is awake to both masculine & feminine. The mediator is therefore able to approach any relationship with awareness, with understanding. It is a Sanyasin’s love 😊. One doesn’t have to wear a robe & a mala to be a sanyasin. I was a sanyasin even before my initiation (but that’s a topic for another day) 

I guess what I’m really trying to say here is that we keep doing & doing so much to make a relationship work but what we are doing in our doing is killing the love to save the relationship. But love grows in the being. Just BEING with each other is enough to be grateful for, sometimes even BEING without each other has more to be grateful for. In the BEING, we allow existence the freedom to do what needs to be done. We allow the story to be written, we allow Love to be saved, even at the cost of a relationship. Spiritual love is the Love of the new being – the New Man & the New woman. 

Relationships kill the Love, relating transforms it to spiritual Love. Relationships belong to the society & Love IS God!